The last time I was interested in a girl I took the aggressive route. I have NEVER been an assertive or direct kind of guy but I tried something new. Group therapy helped me choose my approach toward anything. I thought that if I actually reached out that others would reach back. Nothing happened. In fact, the other party shied away. I chalked this up as someone with the same issues as me and I moved on.
I'm now interested in someone else but I find myself in a strange place. She is recently out of a serious relationship and is still dealing with it. I've been in that position before. I've been in that position so hard that it literally almost killed me. She is going through a lot and I don't know how to respond. The best course of action I can think of is laissez-faire. This reaction comes from my last interaction. I have the utmost respect for others and don't want to be a burden and that's why it's hard for me to be assertive. I like this lady but I know what she's been through. The problem that I face is trying to figure out if she is even remotely interested in me or not. I just want a yes or no answer. I've been through all sides and can handle it. I really don't have the patience for it anymore.
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