Just as soon as I start to get a handle on the intangible things in life the material world shows up. My parents have always paid for my gas and cell phone but those will be removed at the end of the month. I get about 3 calls a day from debt collectors. My parents cosigned on my loans and said that the banks will start garnishing their wages soon if I can't get them deferred somehow. Our landlord sent us threatening mail today since I was late paying rent.
I'm in a new relationship and I don't really know what to do about it either. I quite like her but her anxious attachment style is directly in conflict with my avoidant-attachment style. Everything I've read about attachment theory says that the best thing one can do is to avoid that match up since they are opposites. I'm sticking with it because the only way to alleviate some of those issues are to work through them. I've been through lots of tough situations in relationships but she hasn't. She's experienced more parental issues than I have but less romantic problems.
I don't know what to do about all this. I'm beginning to feel comfortable inside my own head but now the outside world has shown up and it is upset with my actions. If my parents start suffering because I couldn't make it in the world then I'll probably just give up sometime this winter.
